Last week I was misquoted in the press for this story. I, in fact, when called up by a journalist I said that I did not consider the matter a bullying issue for several reasons. To make it one, I thought, would just trivialise other more serious cases of harassment. I was not enraged, quite the opposite.
Affectionate banter, sometimes promotes good feelings, a sense of camaraderie, relief from the tension of modern life, group think, and bullying.
Affectionate banter, sometimes promotes good feelings, a sense of camaraderie, relief from the tension of modern life, group think, and bullying.
How often have you said, or had said to you - in a soothing situation ‘We all know you’re crazy, but we love you anyway!’ Just to bring a smile to someone’s face, to reinforce a position of support. Just to be kind. Sometimes the nicest thing to communicate is also the most 'inappropriate' on paper.
Sometimes political correctness is to kindness what botox is to beauty. A false fix. A con - for the most part.
For those who have legitimately questioned the stance I took on the above story, my campaigning aims personally remain as follows:
I am against intentional hurt, which covers a multitude of offences. As an anti-bullying campaigner and founder of widely supported charity Act Against Bullying what that means to me is systematic deliberate cruelty for whatever reason, whether it be group interaction, ignorance, manipulation, calculated exclusion or just plain evil.
As a global warming campaigner my views are the same. To know that we are causing environmental suicide and not to act against it seems a crime against humanity as well as the planet. This is why my contribution is to produce the Global Warming Hotspot for the Global Warming Alliance and spearhead the Hot Women Campaign. I don’t think that the general public, women in particular, would deliberately sabotage the future of the planet. Much of the excesses in the Western world have been imposed through group think and commercial pressure, which amount to a far more dangerous form of manipulation than a few light hearted comments.
Sometimes political correctness is to kindness what botox is to beauty. A false fix. A con - for the most part.
For those who have legitimately questioned the stance I took on the above story, my campaigning aims personally remain as follows:
I am against intentional hurt, which covers a multitude of offences. As an anti-bullying campaigner and founder of widely supported charity Act Against Bullying what that means to me is systematic deliberate cruelty for whatever reason, whether it be group interaction, ignorance, manipulation, calculated exclusion or just plain evil.
As a global warming campaigner my views are the same. To know that we are causing environmental suicide and not to act against it seems a crime against humanity as well as the planet. This is why my contribution is to produce the Global Warming Hotspot for the Global Warming Alliance and spearhead the Hot Women Campaign. I don’t think that the general public, women in particular, would deliberately sabotage the future of the planet. Much of the excesses in the Western world have been imposed through group think and commercial pressure, which amount to a far more dangerous form of manipulation than a few light hearted comments.
Life is complex, human beings equally so; and there are very few examples on earth of completely selfless individuals. Equally, there are countless examples of decent human beings who strive to motivate for the good of others. Thankfully.
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